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Monday, October 6, 2008

Encouraging Words

Well we just got back from Jackson and its 7:45 p.m.!!! It has been a very long day and of course event filled. You know how last night I made the comment when it rains it pours? Well I now believe we faced a worse storm today...maybe one like Hurricane Katrina. Thankfully the doctor's appointment did not cause this storm to brew. First things first. Our doctor's appointment went well and we left encouraged. I will give details later on. But afterwards we all went to eat in Jackson. Well we were leaving the restaurant and we walk outside...guess what...NO CAR!!!! My mother's car was stolen from a very busy section of Jackson in broad daylight at 1:30 in the afternoon!!! Well praise God that Shea was able to make the trip today...but he had to go in his own car to stay away from me. This way we had another car with us in Jackson. He was not running fever this morning and felt like he was okay to make the trip. On a personal note I was VERY relieved for him to be going. It was comforting having him by my side along with my mom and dad. Well after filing police reports we all (mom, dad, shea and I) loaded up in his truck and traveled back to Hattiesburg one vehicle short. If Mary Glenn makes it into this world we will have one heck of a story to tell her!!!

Now for the doctor's visit. Dr. Perry was encouraged by what he saw today. The amount of amniotic fluid is normal. Mary Glenn moved the whole time which really made Dr. Perry excited. The calcium deposit on her heart is still there and there is also a "sliver" of fluid around the heart. Dr. Perry said that we definitely need to take a further look at it with a pediatric cardiologist and get another opinion. He has hopes that this is nothing major. Mary Glenn is still small but also still four weeks behind in development. She has continued on an uphill climb and has not flattened out...this is GOOD news. She now weighs 506 grams or 1 lb. 2 oz. All of her measurements are in proportion to each other. Her brain and spine look normal. Her blood flow to the brain and the cord look good. Dr. Perry does not see any major birth defects...PRAISE OUR GOD!!!! Dr. Perry's biggest concern is the baby is small which we have been aware of this since the middle of August. He feels if we can carry this baby to 34/36 weeks (my gestation) then we will take her then. The reason for this is because with a baby that has had a growth restriction like Mary Glenn the chances of a still birth increase around this time and we do not want to take any chances. As of today I am 27 weeks and 3 days. Now what? I will see Dr. Shores (pediatric cardiologist) in Jackson next Thursday for a further and more in depth look at her heart. This Friday (October 10th) I will begin fetal assessments (NST) with Dr. Benton. I will continue the NSTs until we deliver.

Our God is good! This journey has been long and overwhelming but at the same time it has bettered me as a person. We have wanted to use our baby to glorify our Lord and Savior and I pray that we continue to do so. When Mary Glenn makes it into this world I can thank her for strengthening my relationship with God. I don't think I have stopped talking to Him today!!! One thing that was left in my mom's car was my Bible and journal. I pray that whoever did such an evil thing today will look in the back seat and look into the Bible and read His words. My writings in my journal can not be replaced but maybe they will read those words too and see how awesome of a God we have!!! Maybe they will read about our baby girl and how she fights each day and how God has changed our lives with her.

Thank you so much for all the prayers. Prayer is very powerful and I ask now that you please don't stop! Our visit next Thursday is important and I pray that we will be encouraged once again by the doctor. I pray for God's will to be continued and that Shea and I will guard our hearts with the news that is to come. Please begin praying for our cardiologist Dr. Shores. Pray for Mary Glenn and that she will continue to fight and grow for us each day! As always pray for Dr. Benton especially right now as he has been under the weather today. Words can not describe how I have been overwhelmed by the support of our family and friends. One last thing...pray for the person who felt lead today to steal my mother's car. Obviously they are a lost soul and need help. I pray that they may find help on the back seat of mom's car!! Much love to all of you...

In His Word,
Bethany

8 comments:

Carly Winborne said...

Today must have been truly bittersweet. I can't imagine walking out to find your car missing, but what joy you must have been flying on, with that news of the doctor visit. Thank you for the update, I have been checking in throughout the day.

You know that we're in Clinton, so if you need/want a place to call homebase, please let me know. You and Shea are welcome to our extra room, too. We love having company!

The Gardners said...

Bet - I have been checking the blog all night for an update! I am in awe of what God is doing with that sweet baby! I believe the angels are surrounding you and Shea and I pray you continue to enjoy HIS sweet presence! I also pray for some much needed rest!
Troy and I pray for you DAILY!!! We love you!
Em

Bonnie Tyrone said...

Bethany,
What wonderful news(minus the car part) I have been checking the blog all night last night waiting for an update, yall were in our thoughts and prayers all day! Please keep us updated.

Stephanie said...

Bethany,
Praise God! Keep trusting the Lord. A total dependence upon Him is a sweet place to be...a rough ride to get there, but there is nothing like trusting our Savior with all you have. Press on!
Love and prayers (even now),
Stephanie

The Metz Family said...

Bethany-
I am a planner. I plan everything. I make lots and lots of to do lists all the time and i always have all of the things I need to do running through my mind...Thank you for reminding me that I am not the master planner. I continue to be inspired by your story and your faith and I so appreciate you sharing it with all of us. I have no doubt that Mary Glenn is changing lives much as Jason did. I hope to see you again Satuday.
Love,
Stacey

lucyjussely said...

Bethany- What an emotional day Monday was! Daniel and I love ya'll and continue to pray for all of you!! lucy

Aegremillion said...

Bethany, I came across you & Shea's blog this evening and started from the bottom and read up. I am absolutely in tears - but not of saddness but of awe & amazement. My heart aches for you & Shea to go through this but the recent developments are a testament to God's awesome will for both of you. I am praying for you and your family. I am praying for strenght for Mary Glenn and that come October 10th you'll be blessed with more good news.

-Ashley Gremillion Palmer

blog said...

I know just how hard those appointments are but you have such grace. My small twin was growth restricted and she is doing great!